I never posted any pregnancy photos on my blog out of sheer laziness so I wanted to post one of the last pics that I took of my monstrous belly for posterity. This was taken on my due date and I was HUGE. It's hard to imagine that there was an almost 10 pound kid in there plus a placenta that was just as big as she was. Even though I was large, it just doesn't seem possible to have all of that tucked into my body. I am sad to see the belly all gone now but it sure does feel good to be able to breathe again. I will post a before/after pic on Friday (that's when I will be 4 weeks post-partum). All of the weight is gone but I still have to get everything back in shape. The OB has me on restrictions until I see her so I cannot exercise or do anything strenuous just yet. The anemia is kicking my butt but hopefully my energy will soon return as my iron levels go back up.
Monday, April 08, 2013
40 Weeks-My Due Date (3/10/13)
I never posted any pregnancy photos on my blog out of sheer laziness so I wanted to post one of the last pics that I took of my monstrous belly for posterity. This was taken on my due date and I was HUGE. It's hard to imagine that there was an almost 10 pound kid in there plus a placenta that was just as big as she was. Even though I was large, it just doesn't seem possible to have all of that tucked into my body. I am sad to see the belly all gone now but it sure does feel good to be able to breathe again. I will post a before/after pic on Friday (that's when I will be 4 weeks post-partum). All of the weight is gone but I still have to get everything back in shape. The OB has me on restrictions until I see her so I cannot exercise or do anything strenuous just yet. The anemia is kicking my butt but hopefully my energy will soon return as my iron levels go back up.
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Monday, April 01, 2013
Greenwoods's On Green Street-My FAVE!!
Sweet Potatoes, Cheese Grits, Lemon Chive Butter
For Clayton's birthday last year, I arranged an early surprise trip to Atlanta for the weekend. My parents took the boys so we got to spend some quality time together. I got a deal at the Ritz Carlton downtown so that is where we stayed. Clayton needed new clothes so I bought him 2 new outfits from Brooks Brothers. Everything was packed and loaded into the car without his knowledge. He was surprised when we got in the car and I told him to head south, lol. We went to the Georgia Aquarium and ate at several good restaurants. We lived in Atlanta from 2000-2002, so we also made it a point to ride around and see all the places we used to frequent. Our favorite restaurant down there is Greenwood's. They serve up amazing southern food in an old yellow house in Roswell. It is a hidden gem that you would never notice while driving in town. They don't seem to advertise and the only way to be in the know is word-of-mouth. Back in the day, we watched our neighbors' cats while they were out of town and they gave us a gift certificate to this place. I am so thankful for them because Greenwood's is my all-time favorite restaurant. Nothing can top it. I would give my right arm for the recipes to their honey peppered fried chicken, cheese grits, and lemon chive butter. Yummmmm...
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Saturday, March 30, 2013
Thursday, March 28, 2013
My Own Dairy...Moo!
My life is consumed by lactation at the moment. I have been pumping a lot lately to try and establish my milk supply. It has been a little harder this time around. My supply isn't as good as it has been after the other 4 births. My IPs rented me a hospital grade Medela pump today which should really help as my Medela Pump In Style is about to kick the dust. The hope is to send out the first cooler next week. Wish me luck!
BTW, thanks to lactation, I am only 1.5 pounds away from my normal weight. My metabolism soars when I pump so I reap the benefits of eating what I want and dropping pounds quickly. Love it!
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Monday, March 25, 2013
Surrobaby #3's Birth Story---3/15/2013
Yes, it is true. My uterus is no longer occupied! I know this is a bit overdue but I have had a tough recovery following the birth. The actual delivery was easy but the events that happened afterward were a bit crazy.
After going crazy waiting for baby S to make her appearance in the final weeks, she FINALLY came into the world on Friday, 3/15 at 4:14pm. I was 40 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Baby girl was a HUGE 9lb., 11oz. and 22 inches long. Get this-NO STITCHES!! I am a small girl so that was completely shocking. It maybe took me 10 minutes to push her out. Everything was great up until it was realized that she wasn't breathing and I was hemorrhaging. I wrote out most of the details on Facebook so read the bottom two posts if you want to hear about my traumatic experience. Thankfully, baby girl and I are both healthy and good now. My IPs missed the birth but at least they didn't have to witness the blood bath that occurred in the delivery room. They are totally enthralled with her and she is a sweet little thing. I miss her already.
Post #1 from Facebook (Friday night 3/15):I have had such a traumatic delivery. Baby came out blue and stunned. She wouldn't cry and we heard the OB ask for someone in respiratory to get in there quick. Clayton and I both freaked but thankfully she started to breathe on her own after a minute or so. Then we find out that her shoulder is displaced due to her huge size and my small birth canal. I felt so bad but it has been corrected. As I was watching her get cleaned up, I noticed my OB fretting while she was working on me. I was bleeding profusely and she was digging around painfully inside of me. The placenta was out (and it was humongous!) but she thought I had more pieces inside. I ended up being quickly wheeled to the OR and they did a D&C under general anesthesia. They also proceeded to put a balloon inside me to try and cut off the bleeding. When I woke up an hour later, I was just being put back in my delivery room. I had tubes and lines everywhere (still do). I started begging for water but they wouldn't let me. It was awful. They told Clayton (because I was so drugged up) that if the balloon didn't work, I would have to have some horrid procedure that involved going through my femoral artery or a hysterectomy. Egad. They began 1 of 2 blood transfusions on me. I was in a lot of pain and so they began morphine. I had been on pitocin ever since delivery to try and help shrink my uterus (still am on it). It feels like I am in labor all over again. Now I have Toradol, Lortabs, pitocin, an IV, a catheter, and the balloon with a drainage tube. It's crazy! I just now got the ok to drink liquids again and I am happy. Hope this post all made sense as I am a bit loopy, lol. Thanks everyone for the support/prayers. I feel so loved and special!!
Post #2 from Facebook (Sunday 3/17):
Yesterday was kinda rough so I rested as much as I could. Friday night was tough as the pain meds didn't touch the contraction pain stemming from the use of pitocin and the saline-filled balloon in my uterus. Luckily, the balloon procedure worked and my uterine hemorrhage repaired itself. The worst part of the whole deal was when they removed everything. It was less than 18 hours since birthing chunky monkey and yet my OB had to stick her arm up in me to remove 2 large sponge pieces (they helped hold the contraption in place). It took her a while and she really had to dig. The pain from that was excruciating. Once those were removed, she emptied the balloon (which was expanded to about size of a large grapefruit). After deflation, it was pulled through as my cervix screamed in revolt. Heck, I may have screamed too, lol. It felt so good after that though. I finally quit having contractions and felt unpregnant again. Ahhhh, the relief. They prodded me every 15 minutes for the next hour to ensure that I wouldn't hemorrhage again and then removed my catheter. Besides 1 saline drip, I felt like a free woman without all those dang tubes and lines connected to me. After 32 hours of fun, I was allowed to eat again and things really started to get better from there. I got released to the recovery floor around 1pm yesterday. Since everything went so crazy, I didn't get to really visit with the baby until yesterday evening and I could not wait to get my hands on her. She is the sweetest thing. The IPs let Clayton and I keep her with us for a while so that we could cuddle her. It was awesome and I am so privileged to have had that honor. My IM noted how baby S knew me as soon as I got her. She had been upset and settled down immediately when I touched her face. It's crazy how babies can sense who carried them. I told IM not to worry as she will forget. Soon, she will be settled in at home and she will know exactly who her parents and sister are. So now I am getting better and may get released today. In the meantime, I am pumping colostrum to give Miss Thang some immunity before she goes home.
BTW, Clayton babied her after the birth and he kept her taken care of while waiting for the parents to arrive. They got here around 6 or 7pm and she had been born at 4:14pm. I got wheeled back into my delivery room after an hour in the OR (maybe 5:30pm?) but couldn't really visit with her. Clayton was sweet enough to carry her over to my bed and he tried to lay her beside me so that I could really get a good look at her. That was great but I was unfortunately too drugged up to hold her at that point. Regardless, it was still a special moment and I won't forget it. Seeing her made the whole journey worthwhile.
So, that's the story in a nutshell. I am pumping milk for Miss Thang #2 and getting better with every passing day. Last week was really hard but this week is noticeably better. I am down 25 pounds and only 6 pounds away from my normal weight. The magic lactation diet is in full effect. I can eat all the junk I want and yet still shed the pounds. It is going to be a long while before I give my dairy up, lol.
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Sunday, January 13, 2013
Tuesday, January 08, 2013
Old pics from Father's Day 2012
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Friday, December 28, 2012
Emerson's 8th Birthday Party at Great Wolf Lodge (11/7-11/8/12)
My completed cupcakes for the party. I topped each one with chocolate frosting and then covered each with a fondant circle to make the Ugly Doll faces. They were super easy to make.
The room was impossible to get a good photo of. We could have upgraded and got a super nice suite but I decided to go with this one because I just knew that the kids would love the kid cabin inside of it. They had their own space, complete with bunk beds and tv. It only had 3 beds in it but that was no biggie since E's guests couldn't stay the night anyway (they had school the next day and I opted to keep my kiddos out).
Hayden chilling on the top bunk in the cabin
So, I got this great deal for GWL a couple of months ago and booked it for Emerson's surprise birthday party. He really had no clue. I showed up in the room before he got there to decorate it. Clayton said that he was still clueless when they drove into the parking lot. When they showed up at the door, E was amazed when he saw the room decked out for his special day. He was super excited and the look of happiness that he had made it all worth it. Shortly after he arrived, his guests showed up. We took off immediately to play in the water park and it was pretty much deserted. They had the place practically to themselves. There was maybe 15 total swimmers in the whole park. Gosh, it really is beneficial to live only 10 minutes down the road so that we could go on a weekday. The boys played hard and then had some nasty pizza from one of the eateries in GWL. It was beyond terrible but it didn't seem to phase them. After the park closed, we headed back to the room for cupcakes and snacks. The guests left and we went to bed.
The next day, which was Emerson's actual birthday, Clayton had to go to work so I took the kiddos to breakfast. We then did MagiQuest until lunch time. I took them out to lunch and then we hit the water park again. They played all afternoon until Clayton got back from work. Emerson was hungry for steak so we had his birthday dinner at Texas Land & Cattle. All in all, I think E had a wonderful birthday. :)
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Sunday, December 09, 2012
Halloween 2012
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Thursday, October 18, 2012
Kitchen Tile
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Wednesday, October 17, 2012
My Newest Hobby (besides gestating)
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Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Kitchen Backsplash
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Monday, October 01, 2012
Isn't she lovely?
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Thursday, September 13, 2012
Concord/Charlotte Great Wolf Lodge Deal
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Thursday, September 06, 2012
Wednesday, September 05, 2012
Sorry for my long absence
I haven't been on here in forever and I apologize for just dropping off the face of Earth. I have had my reasons though. Sickness is the main culprit. I have been sick since about week 6 of this pregnancy. It seemed to innocently be good ole morning sickness so I didn't think much of it. Then it got progressively worse. Over the past few weeks, I have been in a lot of abdominal pain. It has been so bad that I haven't been able to eat. It hurts so bad after I have a meal or snack. It's like someone has punched me in the gut. My weight started to drop from my lack of eating and I spent all of my time in bed. I decided to call my OB last week after I spent the morning crying on the floor from the pain. Gall stones seemed to be likely since they commonly appear during pregnancy. Unfortunately, the ultrasound came back clear. My gall bladder, pancreas, and liver were all checked for abnormality. Everything was fine. I was so upset because that left me with no diagnosis or treatment plan. What's even more frustrating is that my OB told me that they couldn't figure it out so I should see my general practitioner instead. Like the gp can do anything? I am pregnant for crying out loud! When you are pregnant, no one wants to treat you and there usually isn't much that they can do. I ended up in the urgent care office for my gp's office this past Sunday and the physician that I saw leaned toward a possible stomach ulcer. He couldn't run any labwork though so it was just a guess. He told me to see my gp this week so she could order the labs to see if anything was off. Well, I have gotten a tiny bit better. I have started to eat again and the pain isn't as intense as it was last week. I am holding out on making any appointments for now. I have an OB appt. on 9/17 so I think I can wait until then to discuss a possible ulcer. We shall see.
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Friday, August 03, 2012
My Birthday and an Ultrasound Surprise
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Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Introducing...
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Saturday, July 21, 2012
Upcoming Ultrasound
I have been crazy busy over the past few weeks so I haven't had much time to update. I tend to post on Facebook more than my blog, especially when I am away from my laptop. Anyway, the ultrasound is set for Monday at 8am. After that, I have my first OB appointment. My wonderful IM is going to fly into Charlotte tomorrow and stay the night with us so that she can go to the appointments with me. I can't wait!! I will update you all as soon as I get back to my computer. Hopefully, I will have a photo to post too. What do you guess that we will see, one girl or two girlies?? My guess is one healthy baby girl. I personally think that the overachiever embryo ate her sister for lunch, lol.
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Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Baseball Boys (6/9/12)
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Monday, July 09, 2012
4th of July
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Thursday, June 28, 2012
Positively
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Tuesday, June 26, 2012
2 Beautiful Little Girls
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Saturday, June 23, 2012
Waiting for Embryo Transfer in CA
Hey guys, here's a quick update on my latest surrogacy journey. They are going to thaw the last 2 embryos that my IPs have today. Both are little girls and we hope that they make the thaw. It's all so nerve-wracking! Our transfer is set at 10am Pacific time so that is 1pm to all my southern friends/family. I would greatly appreciate it if you would please say a quick prayer for my IPs and the procedure. They want nothing more than to have a sibling for their daughter.
I changed my ticker above to reflect a pregnancy because that is what I will be considered until a blood test could prove otherwise. If you are wondering how I am 2 weeks and 6 days pregnant before I even have the embryos transferred into me, here is an explanation:
In a normal cycle, you don't ovulate until around day 14 (2 weeks after you start day 1 of your period) and that is when conception occurs. By the time that you know that you are pregnant, you most likely just missed day 1 of your next cycle (about 2 weeks after conception). That makes you 4 weeks and 1 day pregnant even though you really only conceived 2 weeks and a day before your missed period. Due to never knowing exactly when conception occured because everyone's period lengths are different, the due date is always calculated from the 1st day of your last period. With IVF, we know exactly when conception occured but it still has to be calculated with the addition of 14 days before the egg retrieval. These embryos were frozen at 6 days old so you add the 6 days to the initial first 2 weeks. Clear as mud, right? LOL
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Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Our Home
I never got around to posting a photo of our house after it was completed. Our sod is coming in rather nicely. The back is a different story. It is seeded and taking forever to grow in. I miss having underground irrigation like we had in CO. I can't stand seeing the hoses and tripping over them is a pain. Maybe we will sod the back and put in a sprinkler system? I have no idea.
Posted by Brandy at 6/12/2012 09:17:00 AM 3 comments
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Monday, June 11, 2012
My Boys
I love these two guys so much! They are turning out to be such cool people. When they aren't arguing, they are the neatest things since sliced bread. They have totally different personalities and look nothing alike (H favors me and E looks like Clayton). I often wonder how they can both be mine but I am sure glad that they are. <3
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Tuesday, June 05, 2012
Proud Mom
I don't have any new pics to post but I do have some good news. Both of my boys are going to the championship game this weekend! Emerson's team will be playing the Red Sox (7-8 coach pitch league) in the morning and Hayden's team will be playing the Red Sox (9-10 kid pitch league) just before noon. I think it is weird that both boys are playing teams with the same name but what's even weirder is that there is a kid who plays on both Red Sox teams (you can play up an age bracket if you are good enough). Heck, now that I think about it, we have a kid on both of my boys' teams that does the same thing so he will be in both games also. Crazy. I hope we have a fun day of baseball on Saturday. I am kind of bummed that the season is almost over. My kids plan to play Fall ball so I guess we will return to the fields sometime after school starts. I look forward to it!
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Wednesday, May 30, 2012
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